Tuesday, July 31, 2012

2000

I never thought so many would take an interest in my life, sending me so much love, guessing and speculating: who is Avy Stanford? A few hints, I'm not paid for by H&M (I hate them), I'm not Georgia Jagger in disguise and I'm not from Iowa.

I also don't believe in loving everyone equally, because not everyone deserves to be loved. The only fair way of judging others is by their character, so always know what it means when I say that I love you. For taking the time to read, for understanding and for caring enough to tell me what's on your mind. It means the world to me, you are all beautiful.

Now, tell me a secret.








50 comments:

  1. I agree with you, not everyone deserves to be loved ! Your blog and way to express yourself is always amazing. Kisses !

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  2. A DARK ONE:
    An adventurous teenage girl takes to sneaking out. Tall walls and private security.
    Parties. Drugged and dungeon. Serial. Suicides like Kodak moments. Bullet meets brain. Another jumps. A young couple at gunpoint in the woods. One returns. A parent, found too late. In the end she told me. Paradigm shift. Sworn to secrecy.

    I went to a drop in centre to tattle to a stranger so her past wouldn't swollow me by proxy.


    A LIGHT ONE:
    I am legion for we are many. But that's okay. I am a good team.

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  3. Once upon a time I tried to die. Shhh. I don't regret it.

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  4. hell no, i'm not going to tell you a secret, but i will keep reading your blog. :)

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  5. I wear my favorite underwear twice before I wash them :P

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  6. And thank you for opening up.

    A secret, eh? My friends all think that I don't pick up my phone because I'm too absent minded but in truth sometimes I just want to be alone and don't feel up to talking to anyone.

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  7. Love reading your stories. Guess my secret is doorway to further mysteries :) xoxo

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  8. you are very authentic, the way you write and describe your situations is not only interesting and amusing but it shows you're not trying to be anyone else or just catch attention randomly.. you do it because you like it and fuck it if someone does not.. am I wrong?.. at least that's the vibe I get and it's damn right.. so congrats on the followers, I think I'm gonna join in and be a part of the next 3000...
    anyway..secrets.. that's an interesting request of you... I pretend I'm OK when in fact I'm just counting the days until I die because I don't think this is the life I should be living... I lied and said I wasn't home when my ex came at 3am with "serenata" to propose (me? married? as if!)... I pour out the entire Raisin Bran cereal, take out ALL the raisins because I love them and put the cereal back in and pretend I hate the cereal to piss off my sisters who have actually called the Cereal company to file complaints about the raisin deficiency in the cereal haha and they have no clue...
    I got way excited with the secret sharing thing.. enough now

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  9. A secret? There hasn't been a day this summer where he hasn't crossed my mind. I go back in three weeks, and even then, I'll be too much of a coward to do something about it. The words are clear in my mind and easy on the tip of my tongue, yet my lips will stay sealed.

    I really enjoy reading your blog so far. You've been around for so long and have such a huge following, I feel like it would take forever to read it all. Maybe one day. But for now, your writing gives a sense of extraordinaire to an otherwise boring life. While you may think it's nothing too special, some of us can only day dream before our hardwork and dedication gets us there. Thank you for writing for so long and being so wonderful.

    I also have a friend that doesn't believe in loving people a lot, so I understand what it takes to say you love all of us 2000 followers. Thanks and I love you too :)

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  10. Wonderful post!!!! I agree, each one is diferent, and there are some many ways of love!!!!
    its never the same...
    btw, i love these B&W pics <3

    xxx
    www.bohemianbones.blogpsot.com

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  11. Congratulations! I love the way you spin words!! :) :D

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  12. I have to say I am in total agreement about judging someone based on their character. It bothers me to no end when a person is judged on a first impression, as that is all they are.

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  13. i always get hooked up with your writing. good job on that...xx!

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  14. I agree, on the whole loving equally, the more connected you are with someone the more you want to give. In a way it's a harsh statement, but I guess in honestly there's pain.

    xx

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  15. well your blog is pretty excellent - thanks for the comment! x

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  16. The only fair way of judging others is by their character.
    Couldn't agree with you more.
    Your posts are highly intriguing and a pleasure to read.
    :)

    Okay now for a secret, I'm a size zero and I hate it.
    Blogged about it last night in fact! :/

    http://notjustmyallegories.blogspot.in/

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  17. oh wow that's a deep one. quoting :D
    my secret? hmm i don't really like my new mom (dad re-married earlier on june)

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  18. You know I love your blog paradigm and persona -- mystery and all.

    Also: your point reminds me of something I often say, which is "Everyone has the right to be stupid. Not everyone has the right to have a voice."

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  19. Congrats on the 2000 followers! And the photos are beautiful. Hmm, my secret is I've been head over heels for the friend of a guy that's liked me for over two years. I can't stop thinking about him, but I know I should give up on him.

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  20. beautiful photos, and i always enjoy reading your posts!
    but i can't really think of any secret to be honest! i'll tell you if something crosses my mind, haha! xx

    coffeebooksandcitylights.blogspot.com/
    facebook.com/rocknrolllies

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  21. Congrats on reaching 2000! My secret: I'm going out for a super long lunch today because the boss if away.

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  23. I sent you an e-mail with my secret.. I'm too shy to post them here. :o)

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  24. i like your blog name! :D

    http://theoutfitdiaries.blogspot.com/

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  25. you're right, we can't love everybody, that's not pure.

    greetings from poland,
    czmiel

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  26. Lovely photos. I don't think I have very many secrets right now.

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  27. Great post! Thanks for checking in on our blog We are following you now - hope you follow back! Great blog, btw...

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  28. Lovely pictures and congratulations for reaching 2000 followers :)

    The secret....well I truly admire your writing skills a lot!!

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  29. Indeed who is this Avy girl, and why does she fascinate us so?

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  30. bad kind of nerd :{ oh never mind that stinks! and you are such a lovely person. i too distribute my love pretty fairly. i don't think people who least deserve them should be loved by me >.< just sayin'

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  31. Congrats sweetie! a secret? i think i'm about to fall in love! XD

    www.meryswardrobe.blogspot.com

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  32. i have found your blog and have been reading. i am very intrigued and interested. i can't wait to read more. a secret? I'm afraid to wait for the boy i love for 2 years because i don't know if he will want me when he comes home.

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  33. Avy, you have an amazing blog, I really like it!
    Im your newest follower, congrats on 2000! :)

    HippieChicPao

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  34. lovely blog.
    http://xtheperfectmess.blogspot.com.au

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  35. I like pictures in your blog! beautiful B&W`s photos!
    I`m from Russia and my english is not good. But I'll be happy to read your blog.
    I`ll follow you right now.
    It will be great if you follow me too!

    And yes, Everyone in this world worthy of love. People live for love ...

    http://mariamuse.blogspot.com/

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  36. Gorgeous black and white photography!! such amazing shots.

    Couture Caddy x

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  37. Congrats on 2000 followers.. beautiful post as always. Your always so intriguing and mysterious yet very open with your readers. It's quite the talent to be that way. I agree with the judging based on character. Until you get to actually know someone, you have no idea who they really are. Happy Friday!

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  38. Wonderful writing, intriguing and sexy and dark and yet somehow delicate - no wonder you have so many followers :)

    xxx

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  39. Your writing is addictive. I guess that's no secret though.

    Victoria
    Forever Fashionably Late

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  40. secret? well, I think not ;p
    All that I want to share, I share on my blog, or in comments :) And, when I stop to shink about it, I don't really have secrets... Or at least not as interesting as yours :)

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  41. great pictures :-) xoxo ^^
    http://mittelzumstil.blogspot.de/

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  42. People think I cry when I laugh, but really it's the other way around.

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